How do you choose a husband between two great guys, both with their pros and cons?
Posted: August 30th, 2011 | Author: admin | Filed under: Travel For Disabled | Tags: between, both, choose, cons, Great, guys, husband, Pros, Their | 3 Comments »One of the guys is 19 the other is 23. I’ve known each about four years. I’m seeing one guy who doesn’t have a job or a diploma. But when we met there were fireworks. I felt like our souls touched. We have a lot of things in common and I live with him. I’ve been dating him for 3 years. The other guy I met at work, working with the mentally handicapped. We were in the same training room together and I had a crush on him from the start. One of my friends knew that I liked him and asked if I cared if she dated him. Course I said go ahead. And then I tried to get over my crush. I distracted myself from him only when he left work for vacation or something. He was gone at least 6 months. I got the boyfriend I have now. When the guy from work came back, my boyfriend and I were on a break. So I hung out with him and we became close. Hopefully I gave enough details to help you make a choice.
Neither. At ages 19 and 23 no one is ready for marriage. Did you know that couples who marry with one or both partners under the age of 25 have a 75% divorce rate?
You just need to make a choice and no one else can make it for you. Why not date both? Why does it have to be either or? You’re way to young to settle down.
to young sounds like but who knows.but u shouldnt be in a position where you have to choose between two guys you have to love one of them be faithful and honest
B”H
You’re not going to like my answer.
You want to know who will be the right person fifty years from now? You’ll have to cut out superficial distraction.
Stop having sex. Stop having ANY kind of sexual activity with men. Get your own place.
Then date. Without sex. See if you can still enjoy each others company when you cut out all the exciting-fun-electric physical stuff. See who, if you cut all that stuff out, is still good to share your life with.
Which man is willing to date you at all if they can’t have your body? Which man is willing to stick around when things aren’t fun and easy? Which man intellectually stimulates you? Which man shares common ideas with you about child raising, future goals, and religion?
You want to find a good husband? Then sacrifice your libido for a couple months and find out. It’s better than sacrificing your heart, bank account, and children (GD forbid) later on should you find out too late that it wasn’t for REAL.