My parents never did for me and now as an adult parent I do for mine and they belittle me…I am also disabled

I just called to wish my mom a happy mothers day and she put the guilt trip on me about not coming up to see them. 1st – I have had brittle insulin dependant diabetes and 2nd 5 surgeries and degenerative disc disease. They have NEVER come here on their own and have gone on 3 vacations a year but never to see their grandchildren. I never had them do for me but now I do for mine and my mom just says you do what you have to do but has also whined and cried about money for years. But she never would get a license or anything for herself. I just can’t take it anymore; What can I do to keep my sanity?

i am a single woman ,im 65 years old and i live with my parents——–?

(my choice),my parents are both elderly and my mother is handicapped,my dad is slowly recuperating from a brain injury and dementia.between the two of them always nit picking with me theres a lot of inner turmoil here,i would like to move out but im on ssi checks every month and finding a sutable place thats close to our house may be impossible.i dont drive so i may have to use public transportation. thats not my problem ,my problem is my parents,theyve got a strangle hold on me,im not even free to visit my aunt in florida for two weeks! god forbid i should ask them,its no,youre going to annoy them (baloney) they like it when i visit them,and it gives me a well deserved rest. there are times when i feel like putting an end to all this riff-raff ,but i havent got then nerve. whats the solution? i only wish i knew!!! oh,and ive got high blood pressure as well.,this constant hollering isnt good for me,should i either move,or take a vacation from this zoo like atmosphere?
10 points for the best and most senseable answer.

I am a a 20-year-old disabled guy I live with my parents who has a indoor swimming pool. My question is to yo

my parents are away right now on vacation my girlfriend is staying with me my parents won’t be back for a month. The other day my girlfriend asked meif I would be willing to go swimming with her sounds easy right but the catch is she wants me to go swimming in my underwear not a swimsuit. Remember my parents won’t be back for a month what should I do? She is always in her bikini do I pay her back for being so nice to me? A

A question about disabled people and their parents?

What does it say about parents who let their severely disabled people live on their own(usually in a group home but still!)
and what does it say about parents who keep a disabled woman home(has hearing loss, speech problems but not mentally retarded and is highly functional) because they’re afraid she’ll get hurt, make a mistake, or die. they refuse to let her move out or drive. Volunteer yeah but no job.

So is it better to have your disabled child at home protected or on their own? I am constantly reminded that less functional and worse off people than me are living on their own(group homes or not).

I’m 25 and on SSD for 600 a month. If only there were camping furniture for every room I’d maybe move out! I can’t afford to live on my own anyway and I don’t qualify for the group homes because I’m not mentally retarded nor developmentally retarded.
I tried everything I could and they still wouldn’t budge. I made mistakes. They’re keeping me home because I did(not breaking the law mistakes)

My counselor is trying to work on my mom’s fears and get her to get me driving and she only called her once! it’s been a month since my counselor called her.

Is there any companies that sit for parents who has a disable child, while the parent goes on vacation 7 days?

She has be taking care of her disable and needs a rest are there ang programs that help low income families with this.