(my choice),my parents are both elderly and my mother is handicapped,my dad is slowly recuperating from a brain injury and dementia.between the two of them always nit picking with me theres a lot of inner turmoil here,i would like to move out but im on ssi checks every month and finding a sutable place thats close to our house may be impossible.i dont drive so i may have to use public transportation. thats not my problem ,my problem is my parents,theyve got a strangle hold on me,im not even free to visit my aunt in florida for two weeks! god forbid i should ask them,its no,youre going to annoy them (baloney) they like it when i visit them,and it gives me a well deserved rest. there are times when i feel like putting an end to all this riff-raff ,but i havent got then nerve. whats the solution? i only wish i knew!!! oh,and ive got high blood pressure as well.,this constant hollering isnt good for me,should i either move,or take a vacation from this zoo like atmosphere?
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My mom lives alone and needs help with certain things, and recently had surgery, so she is limited on what she can & can’t do. So, I have been running her errands, cleaning her house, etc.. While doing all these things for my own home as well… I work in the town where she lives, but I don’t live there..I live about 45 minutes away. My brother lives about 25 minutes further out. He has come see our mom twice( in one month ) Last week he was on vacation and didn’t tell my mom, he didn’t even tell his ex wife that he was on vacation because he was afraid that she would ask him to keep their child for more time than he wants to. I asked him to come see our mom on one of those days, but he told me not to make his plans for him. I want to ask him to come help and take turns doing things with and for her.. Don’t get me wrong, I love my mom and we are close, but running two house holds has taken it’s toll and I would like at least one day of reprieve.
Am I asking to much for him to come and help? He acts like his time is too precious.. Yet, get this … He made it a point to call her when he got news that she was making a will and argued that he is ENTITLED to half of everything she leaves behind, and that I better not count on getting her home. That is the LAST thing on my mind right now.. My husband and I already own a home. I don’t think of her items in that way. yet I don’t think he deserves them either, but this is not what I wanted to talk about directly. How can he be so selfish? And self absorbed
my parents are away right now on vacation my girlfriend is staying with me my parents won’t be back for a month. The other day my girlfriend asked meif I would be willing to go swimming with her sounds easy right but the catch is she wants me to go swimming in my underwear not a swimsuit. Remember my parents won’t be back for a month what should I do? She is always in her bikini do I pay her back for being so nice to me? A
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After donating a kidney to a loved one, you can expect to live a life that is as normal as anyone else’s. There are no limitations on your lifestyle, exercise, or life span. A recent study by the University of Minnesota found that donors had a normal life span and were as healthy as people who have two functioning kidneys.
There are probably a few questions you have before donating a kidney. What you should know is that the risks of donation are similar to those involved with any major surgery, such as bleeding and infection. Death resulting from kidney donation is extremely rare. Current research indicates that kidney donation does not change life expectancy or increase a person’s risks of developing kidney disease or other health problems.
A person can lead an active, normal life with only one kidney. Studies have shown that one kidney is sufficient to keep the body healthy. After recovering from surgery, a donor can work, drive, exercise and participate in sports, though contact sports are not recommended. A donor can continue in all types of occupations, including military duty. Also, being a donor does not impact a person’s ability to have a child.
A recent article that evaluated data on a donor’s ability to obtain life, disability, or health insurance after surgery found that the majority of donors surveyed did not experience any problems.
When you return home, your activities will be limited. You should not lift anything that weighs more that 20 lbs for the first four weeks. You may feel tired for the first week or two after the surgery and may need frequent naps. However, donors are encouraged to be active in between their periods of rest. Walking is considered excellent exercise during this time. Santa Cruz is a great city to walk around with many pretty neighborhoods. Santa Cruz homes are varied in age and style and give one time to look at enjoy, rest as needed, and drink in the beauty while you heal. You may also have some swelling around the incision area and should plan to wear loose, comfortable clothes. You will likely be able to return to work 2-3 weeks after the surgery, depending on the type of work. However some donors require a longer recovery period if their work requires heavy lifting or other physical demands.
Although there may be some small changes in your life during the first 1-2 months, you will be able to resume a normal life after that and enjoy knowing that you saved the life of a loved one. Your noble sacrifice does not have to compromise your quality of life. As with any decision of this magnitude, discuss this with several doctors and your family. Consider the pros and cons and be sure to have your will and trust updated. While there are risks in everything we do, giving a life is something a parent understands well.
Ok I live in an apartment complex for the disabled and elderly ..Over Christmas vacation there was a few snow storms here , when I returned I found that the snow and ice was not removed from my doorway ,and I could not get into my apartment ..
I actually had to shovel ice and snow and hurt my back in the process ..Does anyone know if disabled living complexes are supposed to keep all areas clean of snow and ice at all times ..
Thank you for the great answers , I need to mention , there is no maintainance staff here , they fired them ..And this building is run by , Rural Development of North Iowa ..
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