My mom is semi disabled. I live out of town and my brother wont help me care for her.. Does this seam fair 2 U?

My mom lives alone and needs help with certain things, and recently had surgery, so she is limited on what she can & can’t do. So, I have been running her errands, cleaning her house, etc.. While doing all these things for my own home as well… I work in the town where she lives, but I don’t live there..I live about 45 minutes away. My brother lives about 25 minutes further out. He has come see our mom twice( in one month ) Last week he was on vacation and didn’t tell my mom, he didn’t even tell his ex wife that he was on vacation because he was afraid that she would ask him to keep their child for more time than he wants to. I asked him to come see our mom on one of those days, but he told me not to make his plans for him. I want to ask him to come help and take turns doing things with and for her.. Don’t get me wrong, I love my mom and we are close, but running two house holds has taken it’s toll and I would like at least one day of reprieve.
Am I asking to much for him to come and help? He acts like his time is too precious.. Yet, get this … He made it a point to call her when he got news that she was making a will and argued that he is ENTITLED to half of everything she leaves behind, and that I better not count on getting her home. That is the LAST thing on my mind right now.. My husband and I already own a home. I don’t think of her items in that way. yet I don’t think he deserves them either, but this is not what I wanted to talk about directly. How can he be so selfish? And self absorbed

my husband responsible i decide to take vacation in other country but i ask my sister in law to take care him

to take care of him while im away so she agree to stay my house when i come back i find out she left him but my two daughters take care of him we have one 9 years old son my two daughters living with me when i come back he move out to my house in the morning and he said i left him his sick that he know her sister agree after 5 days he call me to pick him up i did but he said he just give me 300 dollars a month for his pension but we are married and have son my love for him gone coz hes talking always when i got my green card i become big head that its not true he just want to remove my rights to take care his money that everyone knows i doing tough job to handle our financial inspite of his situation i dont drive iether only my daughters helping me lots of people ask me to let him go but i pick him up from his sister in law i dont feel love him but hes disable thats why i let him back but my situation finacially he wants to remove my rights if my dasughters not lives with me what will happen to my mortagage its not enough my paycheck he also ask me if i file divorce he ask me not to file child support we live in new jersey can i file divorce while hes back home now

Disability – Treat with care and love

Earlier people with disability had limited options for traveling. They were often restricted to travel due to some reason or the other. People were not allowed to carry any sort of equipments or their medical machines or their attendants with them. They always have to pay an extra heavy amount in order to do so. This was very awful for impaired; it was hard to travel for them.

Travel industry but soon recognized the harm they were doing to their business and to the feelings of many individual. They changed their minds and did many alterations. Disability was tried to remove and people were allowed to carry different equipments (extra paying for that).

Individuals with developmental disabilities have integrated into the workforce, and innovations such as the Canadian Registered Disability Savings Plan (RDSP) which have introduced financial stability and retirement savings to people with disabilities.

Altogether a new and increasingly market had arose, giving people the freedom and travel industry a rapidly- expanding, specialized market to cater to. Soon a new change was easily seen in the travel industry and within the disable people.

Everyone is now allowed to touch the sky and the sky is no more the limit for him or her. People with their disability are now easy to travel to meet their loved ones or any one they want to. They can do their work and carry machines related to their disability. There were no boundations at all.

Another niche that the travel industry has started to promote is vacation home exchanges or investment in time-shares for travelers with disabilities seeking a consistent, reliable vacation experience. Inevitably, the travel industry will cater less to families with children and more to people with disabilities of all kinds.

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Do you think a disabled person would be qualified to take care of others?

I worked at two summer enrichment programs between 2005 and 2006, and one was exclusively for disabled children. And I got these jobs through (temporary summer jobs) a youth employment agency and the weird thing is, these camps were usually composed of disabled children between ages 0-15 and from low income families. But the really weird thing was a lot of the people who got these jobs at these sort of day care places were young, from poor families (14-22), and a few with special needs. A couple of them were severe to the point where they were given non-daycare jobs.

So may question is, what was the point of those summer work experiences of basically putting similar people together but one group was supposed to the caretakers of possibly some people their age? It was weird, I did quit that youth program due to my age and not being able to find suitable work for myself.
Thank you all for the answers so far. But I tend to disagree, working at the disabled camp in particular was very stressful for me and felt like a slap in the face because I grew up on the generation that still had issues with disabled people and viewed them in a bad light. One of the reasons I didn’t return and I went to the “normal” camp the next summer.

And on another note, I just find it odd for a 15-16 year old to be working at a camp where her peers go. To me, you’d think the students would need someone older and not exactly in the same situation, like someone to look up to or aspire to.