I have a question for senior men?
Posted: June 2nd, 2011 | Author: admin | Filed under: Disability Aid Reviews | Tags: Question, senior | 13 Comments »How many of you find senior women attractive and would ask one out on a date?
When I used to go out with my daughter, (admittingly beautiful, scouted by a model agency but wasnt interested) I am the invisable woman.
Men my age dont see me at all, I may as well be wallpaper. All my female friends say the same thing. I aint no dogs breakfast, my disability is invisible, I dont use mobility aids.
I see senior men everywhere with young things on their arms, often their granddaughters age.
Now guys do you really prefer someone decorative who is interested in what you can buy them, over someone you could carry on a conversation with and who is still attractive, active,compassionate, and intelligent, but not 20 anymore?
Do you feel you are sending a message to the world that you’ve still “got it” with a 20 year old GF? Is this your last hurrah?
I dont mean to insult anyone and if this isnt you, then PLEASE speak up. If it IS you, can you tell me whats up with that?
How did I know Goldwing would come through with an answer we ladies wanted to hear?
(IMO) this is a very good question…well thought out!
Very good job!
whomever answers this might as well share with us all the secret to immortality.
they are equally mysterious
Eye Candy honey, eye candy!
You think senior men are gonna be on yahoo answers!? lol
You sound as though you would make a lovely date, but my wife would probably think otherwise. Anyway, You’re in Canada and I’m in Texas – you’re safe because I’m not coming to Canada even for a pretty girl like you! (no intent to besmirch Canada, it’s just a loooong way up there from here).
Well, since I haven’t dated since my divorce, many moons ago, I think and spend time more on my hobbies and my personal comfort. I have two kids, a son about to turn 18 in just days, and a daughter that just turned 13.
I now enjoy doing yardwork, watching movies and taking care of my pets. Such “mundane” things give me joy, despite the fact I am still in my early fifties and quite good looking, as well as modest.
I wish you well.
Well,
I’m not a senior male, but my hubby is a pinch over 10 yrs younger than myself, and in his eyes, I am a raving beauty.
What you’re doing, is that you have become accustomed to seeing the Winter/Spring couples and are sensative into seeing those matches everywhere you turn. Don’t always assume that the young thing on a man’s arm is his gf – she may be a niece, daughter, granddaughter, or a business acquaintance. Not all young gals go for the older studds and vice versa. It just depends upon your priorities; what you look for in a person.
You want companionship with a male peer. Well, why not go to the places they like to haunt? Golf courses, Church, Senior Centers, Ballgames, DanceHalls and such. Why not find friends on the internet sites? There are sites for instant messaging friends; some for dating. I met my hubby thru christiancafe.com – so there are many out there. And try eharmony.com for setting you up with local dates. Don’t think that looks are THAT much of a motivation factor. Men of quality and character won’t be dating women who are not intellectually matched with them – they do seek out equals. You just have been focused too much on those who physically stand out more – the odd-ball Winter/Spring combo’s. Begin noticing the Winter/Winter and Winter/Fall combos so that you will see more & more of them and not get so down about yourself.
You are a flower just waiting to bud with the right fella – just pray on it; get up the courage; believe in yourself; and be ready to date some YOUNGER guys, too! They are out there, and some men PREFER older gals! My hubby did!
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For me I want someone who I have lots in common with. Willing to try new things, open minded and can keep up with me in and out of bed. I have had younger and older women who could not keep up with me. So age does not matter with me. Stamina does. LOL
it is not me. Straight or Gay, the men I know prefer people their own age within 10-15 years, and I suppose that is all the same age. I feel no complusion to be embarrassed with I take off my clothes in front of someone, and I certainly would were they some sweet young thing…hell no…give me the wise ones who have been there and done that, have the scars to prove it. I certainly would not want anyone to think that I paid for an escort…and that is exactly what they would think….no thanks, I ain’ t that bad a catch. And neither is anyone else. Only fools go for this kind of stuff….I am lucky, I have money…there is not a day that I don’t have young gals throw themselves at me…and they are so damned obvious. I simply tell them they are younger than my kids…I don’t think so. I also believe that any man who has to have some young thing hanging on his arm is not much of a man….his ego problems would not be something I would want to deal with. My brother is 2 years younger than I , dated the field with the young, the middle, and the older…he had his choices to make of all of them (he is rich, damned good looking, stays in shape, very athletic…he married a gal 2 years his senior! And they are happy as can be. He came to the same conclusions as I have…no thanks to the young things who know so little about life.
`you say wall paper . bah most men my age would love to have a chance to take a lady to dinner. but i have found that most women 48 to 55 think we as male are wall paper. I’m a normal looking well mannered man 48 and cant get most woman to even make eye contact. as are with many of my friends. i think the problem is with the females . you are not getting any younger. so quit being such snots. bah
First off. You are focussing on the wrong thing. You can control only what you can do. You can’t control what others do.
Avoiding the perfectly obvious solution. OK… If these guys are doing it. Then YOU look for younger guys. In either sex any young adult under the age of 24 is patently stupid…
You are in BC. Learn from nature… Cougar Time.
I find younger men like older women
this is unfortunate, but we are taught that young white ,blond girls are a status symbol from the media, short of that any pretty young thing will do. On the scientific view young women are futile, and there for desirable.